Driving
down the interstate, perhaps the speed was a little above the limit, but car
after car was passing at high speed. Then out of nowhere the state patrol
vehicle with lights flashing pulled up behind the car and pulled it over.
The
driver, Lee, a dear family member was
told that he had been stopped for speeding.
When he explained to the officer that every car on the road had been
passing him at high speed and asked why he was being singled out, the officer smiled wryly and said, “You were
easier to catch.” OUCH!!!
The
very injustice of this made Lee’s blood boil.
It just wasn’t fair.
Maybe
many of us have been faced with similar instances of injustice on the human scene. We often hear that “life isn’t fair”, but
when it hits us personally, witty
sayings go out the window. We just don’t understand why we are being singled
out or punished!!
I
have begun to see that the seemingly unfair, unjust act can actually be an
opportunity to heal wrong thinking and bring us to a higher level of peace, patience and loving thought.
In
an article called “Taking Offence,” religious pioneer Mary Baker Eddy relates: “There
is immense wisdom in the old proverb, He
that is slow to anger is better than the mighty.”* Hannah More, an English religious
writer and philanthropist in the 1800s said, “If I wished to punish my enemy, I should make
him hate somebody.” WOW. Hatred, harsh
judgement, ill will are truly harmful to the “holder”!
A
great example of failing to react to
injustice involves an incident from years ago. A group of authorities and
soldiers came to a small group of men for the
purpose of arresting one of them. One of the friends of the man to be arrested pulled out a sword
and cut off the ear of a member of the
approaching mob. The man to be arrested immediately told his
friend to put up his sword, then he touched the severed ear and healed the man.
Now
the most miraculous part of this is not
that this man’s ear was replaced without
sutures or medical treatment, as amazing as that was, but the display of a very
humble, fearless and loving demeanor by
the man to be arrested that resulted in a more peaceful confrontation for all concerned, quelling anger and retribution.
Of
course, the Holy Bible contains that story. * The man being arrested was Jesus of Nazareth and his friend with the
sword was his disciple, Peter. How unjust
was this action by the High Priests against Jesus, a man of peace and goodness, and certainly
understandable was the anger and desire for retribution exhibited by
Peter. The desire to strike back, to “get
even” and settle the score. But as is so characteristic of Jesus of
Nazareth, he explained to Peter that “people like us don’t do that”!!!
In
that profound lesson that lives through time, Jesus showed how to replace a
sense of injustice with healing kindness, showing that evil and a sense of unfairness
and injustice does not deserve a violent
reaction, but only makes love and
understanding more imperative.
Well, that was easy to understand!! Guess I am outta here! |
One
occasion in my own experience stands out in my thought as a similar lesson. I held a fairly high position in a large
corporation and had a lot of responsibility. One day the Vice President called me in and
told me I was being terminated. Somehow
we just had not seemed to click together as a management team and it had become
obvious that something had to change. I wasn’t actually shocked, but felt such
of sense of disappointment. Certainly I
wasn’t the problem, I thought, and the
temptation to strike out against my boss was very strong. I had worked very diligently and effectively and the injustice of it all hit me hard.
As
a student of the Bible and its lessons, which are still so appropriate centuries
later, I reached out for help. The story of replacing the ear was like
guidance direct from Heaven!!! In the Bible
companion book, Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures, the author wrote:
"Evil has no reality. It is neither
person, place, nor thing, but is simply a belief, an illusion of material
sense.” *** Jesus demonstrated this. He saw evil as separate from person, as when he healed the man who
was possessed by “devils”, mental illness and healed all manner of disease and sin.
He saw that the problem was evil and had no real part in the man.
I
saw that I could separate my manager from the problem and that I need
not be incensed, embarrassed or hurt by the illusion of the human sense of life
and his actions.
Another
helpful thought from the Eddy article was:
To
punish ourselves for others’ faults, is superlative folly. The mental
arrow shot from another’s bow is practically
harmless, unless our own thought barbs it.
It is our pride that makes another’s criticism rankle, our self-will
that makes another’s deed offensive, our egotism that feels hurt by another’s
self-assertion. Well may we feel wounded by our own faults; but we can
hardly afford to be miserable for the faults of others. ****
I felt a peace and calm come over me.
When
we begin to understand the deep love and humility that Jesus displayed, and become true followers, we may be able to " put up the sword" and to “replace the ear” and love one another.
* Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures - Mary Baker Eddy p 71
** Taking Offence,” Miscellaneous Writings -Mary Baker Eddy p 224
*** Luke 22
**** Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures p22
***** Miscellaneous Writings p 24
****** Hymn 30 Christian Science Hymnal
This is wonderful! So clear and on the money and NEEDED to be heard. Thanks so much, as always, for your terrific writing and inspired sharing.
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